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How To Be More Charismatic

Jul 25, 2022

Being charismatic is one of the greatest skills I've learned in my entire career, and it's totally underrated! Charisma makes you magnetic, and being more charismatic will guarantee you attract more people!

Let's get this out of the way– charisma is not about being the most popular person in the room or having the best jokes; it's about interacting with people confidently.

In order to be charismatic, you have to understand your audience and be authentic. You have to be honest with yourself and others, and listen closely when someone else is speaking. You have to be kind, even if it means taking a moment away from your own needs for a second so that someone else can feel heard or understood.

Charisma isn't just about being likable—it's about being kind and well intentioned, and bringing out the best in other people. When you're charismatic, others will want to spend time with you because they feel like they're getting something out of it—whether that's simply an opportunity to relax and enjoy themselves without worrying about what other people might think of them, or whether it's something more tangible like advice or guidance on how best to achieve their goals in life.




It sounds difficult, but it really isn't! Here are some tips on being more charismatic:

1. Understanding

First, you have to understand yourself. What makes you tick? What are your strengths? How do you like to interact with others? Knowing the answers to these questions will help you figure out how to interact with people in a way that will be authentic and genuine—and make them feel understood.

2. Authenticity

We all want to be authentic, but many of us don't know how or even why it matters. Authenticity is what makes people feel like they can trust you and relate to you as a person—even if they're not exactly like you! When we're being true to ourselves and our values, people are drawn to us. And when we're not, they often back away—even if they don't know why! So make sure that when you're interacting with others, even if it feels uncomfortable at first, try your best to be yourself. You'll get more out of it than if you were trying too hard just to win someone over!

3. Kindness

Displaying true kindness and understanding to all brings more to you! If you treat others the way YOU wish to be treated, people will naturally gravitate to your direction. Being more charismatic will make your presence will become fulfilling to others, resulting in you becoming MAGNETIC!

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